When

• When to talk and when to listen
• When to engage and when to back off
• When to ignore and when to pay close attention 
• When to be specific and when to be vague
• When to obey rules and when to violate them
• When to stay and when to leave
• When to worry and when to be indifferent
• When to consult and when to make a decision
• When to tolerate and when to squelch
• When to delay and when to move
• When to smile and when to frown
• When to attend and when to hide
• When to be cautious and when to be bold
• When to be yourself and when to play a role
• When to be frank and when to be discreet
• When to confirm and when to guess
• When to plan and when to improvise
• When to challenge and when to support
• When to conform and when to rebel
• When to dream and when to plod