Advice to Students

I gave a talk to a group of high achieving high school students the other day. The subject was goal setting and achievement, but afterwards I wondered if it wouldn't have been better to zero in on the real things they need to know.

These observations came to mind:

1. You may think that you're the smartest person in your class, but there are legions of people who can make the same boast.
2. For your own safety, understand that there are many gradations of meaning in the word, "friend."
3. Some careers go from Point A to Point B but most go from Point A to Z to M to Q to J.
4. You'll remember the fights you lose much more vividly than the ones you win.
5. You are surrounded by people who can teach you invaluable lessons. After you are 50, you'll wonder why you never had a serious talk with any of them.
6. Learn as quickly as you can the difference between being popular and being decent.
7. The ability to listen will be one of the most important skills you'll ever acquire.
8. Look at the world through a window, not a mirror.
9. Avoid shabby and cruel behavior.
10. Strive to be someone rather than something.