Advice for the Young

What would you tell a young person who is just embarking upon a career?

Here are a few things I've picked up via scars, stomach punches, and some very wise mentors:

• Always check your assumptions. Then check them again.
• The path up is sometimes backwards and sideways.
• Set-backs pass. Most of your worries aren't worth worrying about.
• If you are angry, give yourself time to calm down and don't put it in writing.
• Not every comment deserves a response.
• Learn to be discreet. There are enemies who will exploit unguarded remarks.
• Watch out for hurried agreement. It can be as dangerous as hidden conflict.
• Systems aren't for bureaucrats. They're for winners.
• Strive to do good work, but don't be a perfectionist. Get it done.
• Take time out to schmooze.
• Listen carefully to dissenters.
• Don't be too logical. Reason is not the only force out there.
• You're a good person. Live like a good person.
• You'll make a lot of mistakes. Be willing to forgive yourself as you would forgive others.
• Smart work is better than hard work, but hard work sure beats sloth.
• Build a network of advisors and use it.
• Study people. They're an essential subject.