Friday, July 03, 2009

Questionable Advice

You've probably heard these tips in your career. They are not always wise.

  1. "Never turn down an assignment. You'll gain a reputation as a "can do" person and you'll learn something."
  2. "Fight for the most impressive office. People will judge you on your surroundings."
  3. "Don't hesitate to speak up at meetings. The most vocal person dominates."
  4. "Have an open door. Always take time out for people."
  5. "Keep score on who has gotten what and make sure you get your share."
  6. "Treat everyone exactly the same."
  7. "Focus on the results, not the efforts."
  8. "Don't worry about feelings. Only the numbers matter."
  9. "Strive to eliminate conflict. Good teams are harmonious."
  10. "Only act when everything is in order."

2 comments:

Mary Jo Asmus, President, Aspire Collaborative Services LLC said...

Yes, all of the above! From parents, teachers, managers, and other mentors. They're all too black and white, and most have flaws. Unfortunately, in business, we work within the grey, where we must adapt our decisions and behavior to a particular situation.

Michael Wade said...

Mary Jo,

I've concluded that much of life involves knowing the exceptions to the rules.