Monday, February 04, 2008

A Peter Pan Syndrome?



Kay S. Hymowitz believes that young men in America are going through a delayed adolescence. An excerpt:


But while we grapple with the name, it’s time to state what is now obvious to legions of frustrated young women: the limbo doesn’t bring out the best in young men. With women, you could argue that adulthood is in fact emergent. Single women in their twenties and early thirties are joining an international New Girl Order, hyperachieving in both school and an increasingly female-friendly workplace, while packing leisure hours with shopping, traveling, and dining with friends [see “The New Girl Order,” Autumn 2007]. Single Young Males, or SYMs, by contrast, often seem to hang out in a playground of drinking, hooking up, playing Halo 3, and, in many cases, underachieving. With them, adulthood looks as though it’s receding.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

This excerpt amounts to a silly generalization.

"Young women are responsible and young men are not." That's what you get from this. That doesn't sound like good research.